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Happiness as a Basis of Evaluation

[cw: very conservative Christian rhetoric, quoted anti-atheist talk, incidental gross url, + some kink ethics debate metatalk]

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[cn: kink talk and orgasm talk, nongraphic/theoretical]

(quote taken from this post)

“[your ‘wah my orgasms tho!’ sex pozzie bullshit.]

YOU ARE PUTTING YOUR ORGASMS BEFORE PEOPLE”

Which – well, that certainly seems like an awful thing to be doing.

(sidenote: personally, I’m anorgasmic and as such clearly can’t put my orgasms before anything. But since I’ve yet to see anyone having the idea that kink is OK, but only for anorgasmic people, I’m going to take ‘orgasms’ as standing in for a more general ‘pleasure you get from it’).

…You ever unexpectedly find yourself looking in a mirror?