[cw: consent talk, framed within kinky contexts but probably generally applicable; impact play (hitting); creepy doms]
Tag Archives: grooming
[ warning for some perhaps-more-intense-than-usual talk of sexual pressure/coercion and guilt-tripping/victim-blaming ]
Remember when I wrote this post just a while ago? I’m revisiting that topic again in light of things such as this incident and this comment and this message, but mostly because of the thread beginning with this comment:
So we kick around all these phrases like “sex is not a universal need” and “sex can’t be something you owe someone” and “nobody’s entitled to sex with you” and all that, and although I agree wholeheartedly, I think I’ve noticed a blindspot — or at least, an angle that could use more emphasis. Regardless, it’s good to practice saying it more, and I think more people need to hear this.