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Bad news

In which “bad” is relative.

*rubs temples*  So.  Um.  A guy I’ve recently befriended just informed me that he has a crush on me.

That would be uncomfortable enough on its own, since I it’s unrequited and I have no idea how to handle that tactfully/have limited experience with these situations/have limited ability to empathize or intuit the correct responses.

But on top of that default difficulty, well, the last time someone told me they had a crush on me, it was the Ex-Friend.  So I can’t help feeling uneasy.

I hate this.


Friendship, Unrequited Crushes, and Emotional Abuse

This month’s Carnival of Aces is about expectations in friendships and other relationships, so I suppose now is a good time to talk about this.

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