In the spirit of Queenie’s teeny tiny linkspams, such as the one on greyness, here are a few links about or related to the experiences of tri-orientation aro aces — those identifying as gay/lesbian/bi/het (or some other orientation) while also identifying with both the ace & aro umbrellas.
Some of these links are about identifying with an orientation label in a way that’s not (or not entirely) about romance or sexuality. Some of these links are about nonromantic or ambiguously-romantic partnership. Some of these links are direct personal narratives about tri-label identities, such as gay aro ace or bi aro ace. So as you can see, some of the connections are more direct than others, but hopefully you can find something you’re looking for.
[Crossposted to Pillowfort.]
Bi Aces, Not Biromantic
Tri-Label Aro Aces
Gay/Lesbian/Bi Aro Aces, a comment thread with multiple contributors
A post on being a gay aro ace by Sammy
A post on being a bi aro ace by Astral
Oriented Gray by Coyote
Oriented Aroaceness: An Essay by Lynn
Oriented AroAce Problems (a comic) by Xweetara
Relationships & Partnerships
Updating the Map by Elizabeth
Yearning For “Queerplatonic” To Be Recognized As Not Romantic by luvtheheaven