[cw: consent violation stuff]
First year of grad school: had assigned reading that talked in graphic detail about the genre of porn, dealt with that; had an assigned reading that basically was porn to the extent that it went into its own original erotica, dealt with that; found out that one of my coworkers had a hookup in the shared office, dealt with that; just now was (nonconsensually) exposed to a photo of an actual penis because of a coworker just holding up his phone to show the guy sitting next to me and not even trying to be discretionary about it — stop! making! me! deal! with! this!